why opposites can not be only friends?

when it comes to friendship, why opposites can not be friends? question is not a rocket science question but people have their own views. I had friends(girls) and many of them remain only friend but virtually status of a relationship depends on how the friendship started.
A guy and a girl can not be good buddies. Objections to these types of friendships come from a crude cultural belief that all guys view girls as sexual objects first and real people second. In most scenarios these narrow beliefs become a major hindrance in a friendship. It stifles a budding friendship and even destroys an existing one.
There is no denying of the fact that opposites attract but this attraction can be handled. You have to be strong enough to go beyond your feelings and maintain a healthy friendship. Still if you get attracted to your friend, its not a big deal. You should be honest to yourself and your friend.
I am asking you why can not we be friends although we are opposites? why we have to think of society always?
Just 'coz people can not understand our relationship we have to finish it off?
I don't find it right!!!!!!!!

My mistakes

Mistakes are something which people often commit. but few idiots like me keep repeating.

I wish i could change my past. had i not committed those mistakes in my life i would have been the happiest person of the earth. I had love of my life my dream girl with me and i could not keep her with me. All my mistake not her fault she tried her best to keep us together. but this all is just a dream thats not going to fulfill in this lifetime now.

There was a time when i was known as a stone hearted person with no emotions 4 anybody then she came and changed me and made me a human. I cherished those moments and can say truly from the core of my heart those were best days of my life. but destiny has something else for me.

Destiny played games with me and i became a puppet in its hand.

All i can say i was blind at that time i could not see what i am doing and after committing that blunder of my life time i feel like a loser a big loser.

i Made mistake but never intended to commit even in my dreams. I did this but never thought in my dreams that i would do. The forces of situations around me did not gave me a single chance to make her mine.

I can not express my feelings in words they are lost. I know you think that i was not determined but how much i tried and cried i can not express you.

God knows how would i complete this life time without you. i miss you and i still love you.

silence kills

Life is very sweet.....sweet like chocolate.....but people like me never understand this. They let it melt down with the fire n heat of their anger.
They never understand what all a simple smile can do.
My sweetest friend nihu always tries to make me smile but I don’t know why such a simple and precious thing is missing from my life these days. I was never ever like this before. My friends always said that a smile and laugh a lot. Now they say smile is missing from my face…
I don’t know what I want…I don’t know why I am doing this to me and to my loved ones…..still I smile………