Tuesday, February 23, 2010

why opposites can not be only friends?

when it comes to friendship, why opposites can not be friends? question is not a rocket science question but people have their own views. I had friends(girls) and many of them remain only friend but virtually status of a relationship depends on how the friendship started.
A guy and a girl can not be good buddies. Objections to these types of friendships come from a crude cultural belief that all guys view girls as sexual objects first and real people second. In most scenarios these narrow beliefs become a major hindrance in a friendship. It stifles a budding friendship and even destroys an existing one.
There is no denying of the fact that opposites attract but this attraction can be handled. You have to be strong enough to go beyond your feelings and maintain a healthy friendship. Still if you get attracted to your friend, its not a big deal. You should be honest to yourself and your friend.
I am asking you why can not we be friends although we are opposites? why we have to think of society always?
Just 'coz people can not understand our relationship we have to finish it off?
I don't find it right!!!!!!!!

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